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Cheryl Janecky | 05-13-2009 | Stress Management | Viewed: 586 | Bookmark and Share
Article Summary Problem's with others make life tough. When stress mounts, simple misunderstandings escalate. Stress and fear cause loss of work, money, sleep health and relationships. Overcome fear or it interferes with everyone's happiness. Train your own mind -- find solutions -- and you find happiness and success. Turn this situation around and reap the benefits of a healthier happier lifestyle.
Trouble with others is the primary cause of stress. Once upset and defending or justifying your self or your actions, things get worse. Know why? No one is listening. Everyone is fearful and defending their positions - even if they know they are wrong.

A Quick Good Fortune Insight: Problems are always about relationships. The bigger the problem the more profitable the solution. The stress involved is costing everyone - more than the loss of time and money. Good relations are the foundation of success -- you can't be happy -- or successful -- without them.

When the problem is a close relation or someone you see every day - it's worth changing it. All that can change is you. Once you do, then everything will change.


When you're in a difficult situation it's hard not to believe you are stuck. When you think, "But it's true - I have to deal with the fact that it's happening to me," then you are making it tough on yourself.

Relieve stress: Train your mind.
Your problem is ONLY stuck BECAUSE you believe it is and that it has to be this way. Once you change how you see it - it will change. Anything you want can be true. How? The "truth" changes as your attitude changes. Prove it to yourself. Learn the simple trick of changing your mind - and you can change anything in your life for the better.

Train your mind by FOCUSING on only the outcome you want -- and ignoring what you don't want. Your solution will soon become "true." Might as well get the most out of this situation. Experience this a few times, and you'll have the skill.

"Success is not the key to happiness.
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing,
you will be successful."
Albert Schweitzer


People are not against you - they are for themselves.
When others gossip, blame and judge others harshly they are reacting fearfully to old subconscious habit patterns. They "feel threatened" and so look for a cause and in blaming others - attempt to feel safe. You can help them to feel safe.

You can't ignore a bad situation: You are living in it.
However, you can ignore the parts you fear or dislike in others and focus only on solutions instead. Even if there are only a few good qualities in the others, giving only the good qualities your full attention will change everything. Your fear and dislike is bringing out the worst in them... you can change that quickly.

"The way we see the problem
is the problem."
Stephen R. Covey

Forget the "past drama" and look for solutions.
It doesn't matter how you got into the bad situation - or what the details are. Ignore it -- as talking about it makes you feel bad and then you get more of it. Look for solutions. Find something to like...no matter how small and enjoy it. It will really annoy the others at first...but once you really like them - and feel it -- they will change too. Once you are happy - it won't matter, will it?

"The illiterate of the 21st century
will not be those who cannot
read and write, but those who
cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Alvin Toffler

Find a new perspective.
Your "problem relations" are the result of your "habit of thinking" -- or an attitude you have about others and this situation. If it doesn't feel good: Fear is the reason. Overcome the fear that others can harm you - and you have solved your problem - for life! You can change any habit in 21 days...and change your point of Attraction (or Karma at the same time.)

Change your mind - change your life.
You can only be happy and successful with good relations with others. Step by step, follow a good plan, take action every day.... open your mind to new ways of looking at the problem. You will find solutions. Once you have a new attitude - then Law of Attraction will bring you new opportunities. Other's change too. Magic happens.

It's all attracted to you by what you FEEL. Your feelings follow your thoughts - think new thoughts! No one can interfere with you. No one controls what you tell yourself and think and feel. Other people are not the problem. Your Attention to them is the problem.

"It is common sense to take a method and try it.
If it fails, admit it frankly and try another.
But above all, try something."
Franklin D. Roosevelt

To change this situation, you need only FEEL BETTER about it -- change your Attitude. You'll be open to a solution when you are really feeling hopeful and looking for one.

One step to Quick Good Fortune.
Once you do - you will be amazed at how quickly your life changes. ONLY ONE STEP: change your attitude (feelings) and your life will change.

There's no end to bad situations and unpleasant people. Don't go there. No one can interfere with what you think ...and feel - so no one can interfere with your life and experience...unless YOU ATTRACT IT by arguing or blaming. Do you see the cycle? You can't defend against what you are attracting, can you?

There's also no limit to the Joy, abundance and Good Fortune - you need only FEEL it to attract it and live in it! Once you do, you will leave the bad-feeling situations behind. Either they will change, or you will attract new people and experiences. Let Law of Attraction do the work. You Focus on feeling good-- no matter what.

"Every great and deep difficulty
bears in itself its own solution.
It forces us to change our thinking
in order to find it."
Niels Bohr


Time to Change? Start with Yourself.
Are you tempted to quit? Do you think finding a new job and new relations is the solution? Think again. Make the changes in yourself first - after all: Wherever you go - there you are! You take yourself with you.

Might as well practice on the others in your current situation and change yourself. You will then turn this problem into a huge success. How? Once you change, the new opportunities will begin to flow in. This is effortless change and fun. It's not "against" anyone else. It's moving to your most creative ideas. Focus on you Vision of a solution -- and feel it now - and it will soon be yours.

Quick Good Fortune For You:
"The worst problems contain the best solutions - don't quit till you find it."



Cheryl Janecky Cheryl Janecky Cheryl Janecky is the expert on attracting Good Fortune and quick easy steps to Living your Dream stress free. Get the facts and FREE "21 Insights home study course" for tips and strategies at http://www.quick-good-fortune.com/Stress-Relief-Today.html.

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