The Enigma of Love Part 3
To give what my partner needs, The 3 Golden Keys.
The 1st. Golden Key to relationships: "I am willing to give my partner what they need, not what I need to give them." If our love partner likes blue, do not buy them a shirt that is yellow, because we like yellow. Take their true desires into consideration, and give them what they need.
The 2nd. Golden Key to relationships: "I put my partner first, above all else." If we are busy with work and leave our beloved to struggle alone, then we lose them and we will eventually be on the pull, seeking someone else. We will form an addictive habit of seeking other loves, only to keep doing this over and over again, to make our lives over as well.
Abandonment is abandonment, regardless of the age of the person. Most people already have abandonment issues that they deal with. When we also abandon, or ignore our mate, we create deep pain at the unconscious level. Like the sun, nurture our partner, and shine our love upon them, help them succeed, help them feel loved by the action you take for them, and love become self prophecy. Focus your attention on what is good about them, because what is wrong is plentiful, so is what is good.
The 3rd. Golden Key to relationships: "Give our partner the right of free will, freedom, and the right of choice." If we worry about his or her whereabouts, we will soon be their possessive mother. This then, is no longer an adult relationship, and it is not healthy for either partner. If we feel a need to dominate our partner, we are coming from fear. Deal with our childhood issues, and our feelings about our mate will change for the better.
Even before we find love, get to know the 3 Golden keys, and start to practice them in our daily life. These keys should become second nature for us. When they do, we will have a greater chance to become a walking love.
Nothing comes free, all things we desire come with a cost. To love in labour, and labour in love is a noble goal, thinking and feelings for the other, are all part of the cost involved in any relationship.
Not two people can provide the same substance of love, one provides for example: the seed, other nurture the harvest, both enjoy the rewards of true love. Each action is an expression of love, if your partner is not providing you with the elixir, pick up the sign, and walk away. Someone else is wise enough to fulfil you, for it is in the giving, that we become fulfilled.
The above 3 Golden Keys, might seem very simple. But, if we wish to practice the Ancient Art of Attracting, (having and keeping) love, we will need to follow these golden threads of wisdom. If we are reading this letter of love, we might already know what doesn't work for us.
Perhaps, there are some small little truths within this article that will help us on our Journey - To Find True Love. To Love those near, far and dear freely, so that love will chase us for the rest of our lives.
Many Blessings
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Andre Zizi
Andre Zizi is a qualified teacher, writer, success mentor in the area of academia, health, and dream goals. He is an independent neuropsychology of achievement researcher, a cognitive counsellor with Neuro-Linguistic-Programming diploma. He is also a philosophy graduate and a philosopher, trained in the educational Psychology
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