The Enigma of Love Part 2
The ancient art of finding and attracting true love was always within us. Deep in our heart, in our child's heart, was the huge ability to give and to receive love. It was a little heart, and like a small tin cup, the heart within had a few dings in it. But, it was still there. It is still there now. In learning to know and love again, we have within us some special truths about love.
The first thing that we might have rediscovered about love, and about ourselves, is that we really are afraid of the very thing that we would give almost anything to find. Love becomes a scary affair because it revolves around, ‘the me first syndrome’.
The second thing that we have within us, is that we still have the ability, but not the willingness to love someone else, unconditionally, just as we did when we were very small playing with our toys, the belief that our parents gave us is not to share, with rare exceptions.
Question: How can we attract love, when we are afraid of it?
In learning to love more successfully, we can also re-learn how to love and accept others at a deep level. In the ancient art of finding love, we must learn to love ourselves. Then, and only then, can we once again love others with an open heart.
In our life, if we give anger, fear, or bitterness, we will attract the same, ten fold. If we give love, caring, and acceptance to others, it will also return to us, ten fold. Like attracts like. We can attract love, when we become more familiar with our own love of ourselves. When we like who we are, we are more willing to share that, and to be open with others.
The path of self love involves taking good care of our body, emotions, and mind. It means creating a living space that is calm, clean, and positive. It means finding others who you can support and bring out the leader in every person you meet. Self love means having fun, learning to like our appearance, and healthy choices in our diet. Loving another does rest on how to think and feel correctly. We don't have to be perfect. We are good enough, just as we are. There are Three Golden Keys to Successful Relationship.
part 3 and final will follow shortly
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Andre Zizi
Andre Zizi is a qualified teacher, writer, success mentor in the area of academia, health, and dream goals. He is an independent neuropsychology of achievement researcher, a cognitive counsellor with Neuro-Linguistic-Programming diploma. He is also a philosophy graduate and a philosopher, trained in the educational Psychology
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